America’s Killing Us. Mexico’s Letting Us Live. How Mérida Is Saving Black Lives

America’s Killing Us. Mexico’s Letting Us Live. How Mérida Is Saving Black Lives

by | Mar 3, 2025 | Black Liberation & Diaspora Stories | 0 comments

Escaping America’s Trap: The Truth About Black America’s Exodus to Mexico

While you’re stuck in the U.S., paying to struggle, dodging bullets, eating chemicals, and fighting for equality, more Black Americans are choosing Mexico—$800 mortgages, organic food, affordable healthcare, and true freedom.

Brothas and Sistas, we need to talk. We done marched. We done voted. We done prayed. And yet, here we are—still bleeding, still pleading, still standing outside a burning house, begging for a key.

So let’s ask the real question. What exactly are we fighting for? Equality? Because if that’s the goal, we need to ask ourselves something else. Has power ever been handed over without force?

“The oppressor didn’t gain his power by protests and peaceful demands. He seized control—land and lives—through bloodshed and manipulation. That’s how power was taken. That’s how it was kept.”

So if you’re fighting to be his equal, understand this. You will never get there by voting and waiting on change, because his rules were never meant to let you win. He didn’t gain power that way, and he won’t lose it that way either. Instead, you’ll have to adopt his methods—but you’re not built on corruption and destruction, so that path isn’t an option.

We keep demanding a fair shot, but let’s be real. When has power ever been shared willingly? If power worked like that, kings would step aside, empires would dissolve, and billionaires would empty their pockets.

But that’s not how the world works. Power isn’t about fairness. It’s about control.

And if you’re not the one in control, then you’re the one being controlled.

Now tell me this. Would you walk into a Fortune 500 boardroom and demand the same salary, office, and power as the CEO? No, because it’s not your company. It was never built for you.

So why do we expect a system that was never built for us to suddenly make space for us? And let’s take it a step further. Even if they gave us equality, would it be enough?

Equality means giving everyone the same thing, but what if we don’t all start from the same place? What if the system was designed to keep us ten steps behind from the beginning?

That’s where equity comes in. It isn’t about giving everybody the same slice of pie. It’s about making sure we all get the tools to bake our own damn pie.

Some of us got a spoon, others got a whole bakery. If we’re talking about fairness, then the playing field needs leveling—not just the portions.

And sometimes, that means walking away from the burning house instead of standing at the door, begging for a key. It means building our own table instead of fighting for scraps from theirs.

It’s time we build beyond their borders, beyond their reach, beyond their oppression.

And the truth is, our people have always known when to stop waiting and start moving. This isn’t the first time we had to escape. It isn’t the first time we had to build. It isn’t the first time we had to leave behind what was never meant for us.

What if I told you the Underground Railroad didn’t just run north? It ran south too.

And Mexico? Mexico was the land of freedom Black folks were never taught about.

So the real question isn’t whether they will ever give us freedom. It’s whether we’re ready to go where freedom already exists and claim it for ourselves.

They Kept This Part of the Underground Railroad a Secret—Here’s Why

We all grew up hearing about the Underground Railroad—the stories of enslaved people escaping north to so-called freedom in Canada. Harriet Tubman. Secret tunnels. Coded songs.

But let me ask you this. Who told you about the Underground Railroad to Mexico?

That’s right. The road to freedom didn’t just lead north—it led south. Straight into Mexico.

“America called us ‘runaways.’ Mexico called us free.”

In 1829, Mexico took a stand. Not just words, not empty promises—real action. President Vicente Guerrero, who was of African descent, abolished slavery nationwide, declaring that no human being would be owned on Mexican soil. And this wasn’t just for Mexico’s own people.

Guerrero believed in the right to freedom for all, a belief reflected in the words:

“Cualquier hombre que reclame la libertad como su derecho natural, debe encontrarla en México.”

“Any man who claims freedom as his natural right should find it in Mexico.”

But Mexico’s commitment to freedom didn’t stop there.

Long after Guerrero was gone, Mexico cemented this promise into law. The Mexican Constitution of 1857 later declared that any enslaved person who set foot in the country would be free. No conditions. No loopholes. Freedom was non-negotiable.

This law turned Mexico into a sanctuary for those escaping slavery in the U.S., creating a lesser-known but powerful path to liberation—what some now call the southern route of the Underground Railroad.

Meanwhile, America? Still clinging to chains. Still auctioning off Black bodies. Still brutalizing and hunting down those who dared to escape.

But some of us heard about Mexico’s stance. Some of us ran.

Negro fugitives—Black Seminoles, Maroons, and other freedom-seekers—escaped from Texas, Louisiana, Alabama, and beyond. These weren’t just desperate individuals running blindly. These were organized movements of resistance.

Mexico didn’t just allow them in—it welcomed them. Many escaped slaves even joined the Mexican military, earning land and protection in exchange for their service. Think about that. The same people America saw as property were given land and respect in a foreign nation—while in their so-called “home country,” they were still being whipped, raped, and lynched.

Many of those who found refuge in Mexico never looked back. They built lives, families, and entire communities that still exist today. Their descendants, along with those of Africans enslaved under Spanish rule, make up Mexico’s Afro-Mexican population—a history and a people so often erased but undeniably present.

While the U.S. clung to slavery for decades, Mexico upheld its principles, opening its doors to those seeking safety and dignity.

For generations, we’ve been taught that the only way to survive was to fight for space in a system built to keep us out. But our ancestors knew something we were never supposed to learn—sometimes, the best way to win is to leave.

This isn’t just history. It’s a blueprint.

Mexico: A Safe Haven for Black People, Then and Now

Fast forward almost 200 years, and history is repeating itself. The chains and whips are gone, but the oppression never stopped—it just evolved.

Instead of slave catchers, it’s police brutality.

Instead of plantations, it’s economic oppression.

Instead of shackles, it’s a system designed to keep us struggling.

We’re overpoliced, underpaid, and gaslit into believing that if we just wait a little longer, things will get better. But how long are we supposed to wait?

“We complain, we suffer, we beg for change—then we wake up and do it all over again. Too scared to fight back, too broken to admit it.”

“We see the trap, we feel the pain, yet we convince ourselves escape is impossible. They don’t even have to control us anymore—we do it for them.”

But people ain’t waiting no more.

Black expats are leaving the U.S. in growing numbers, settling in Mérida, Tulum, Playa del Carmen, and Mexico City. They’re finding something many never thought possible—safety, peace, and an environment where they don’t have to constantly fight just to exist.

And they’re not just surviving—they’re thriving.

  • The streets are safer.
  • The food is fresh and free of chemicals.
  • Healthcare is affordable.
  • And most importantly—the daily stress of being Black in America fades.

 

The Growing Black Community in Mérida, Mexico

While the Black community in Mérida is still small, it’s growing fast.

In 2020, there were approximately 30 Black families living in Mérida. Today, that number has ballooned to an estimated 3,500, with new families arriving every week as we head into 2025. These are guesstimates from community groups like The Black Mérida Experience and Brothas and Sistas of Mérida, which have become cornerstones of the community.

Eric and Nicole Hatch, founders of Self Care Sundays – Mérida, Velvet Soul, Backyard Boogie, and Sunday Service, are at the heart of this movement. They often speak about their vision for the future:

“We can’t wait to see thousands of Black people living in Mérida, Mexico—free from the land of their oppressor and able to confront their traumas.”

This isn’t just a dream—it’s a movement. And it’s rooted in a history of liberation that goes back centuries.

The Community Needs You: Opportunities to Thrive

With growth comes opportunity. Here’s what the Black expat community in Mérida needs right now:

  • Chefs – Imagine a soul food restaurant in the heart of the Yucatán, serving collard greens, mac and cheese, and peach cobbler.
  • EducatorsTeachers, tutors, and mentors are needed to support Black children and adults.
  • HandymenPlumbers, electricians, and carpenters are in high demand.
  • Doctors & Healthcare ProfessionalsBlack doctors who understand our unique medical needs are essential.
  • Hair Braiders & StylistsBlack hair needs Black hands. Braiders, stylists, and barbers are in huge demand.
  • Importers of Specialty ProductsSoul food ingredients are hard to find in Mexico. Someone could build a business importing them.
  • Musicians & Singers – The community is hungry for live music, from gospel concerts to jazz nights.
  • Ministers & Spiritual LeadersPastors, counselors, and healers are needed to help the community grow in faith and heal generational wounds.
  • Legal & PR Professionals – Navigating a new country’s system is tricky—we need lawyers and advocates.

Eric and Nicole Hatch dream of the day the community can host gospel concerts, spoken word nights, and praise and worship services at their venue. The space is here—the people are here—we just need the talent to step up.

Challenges: Adjusting to Life in Mexico

Let’s keep it real—moving to Mexico ain’t all sunshine and tacos.

There are challenges, but they’re nothing compared to the daily grind of being Black in America. Here’s what you need to know:

  • The Streets Are Rough – Sidewalks are uneven, potholes are real, and walking while looking at your phone? Bad idea.
  • Food Handling Takes Getting Used To – Some street vendors don’t follow strict food safety standards. Your stomach will adjust.
  • The Heat Is No Joke – From April to July, Mérida feels like an oven. Hydrate, dress light, and embrace siesta culture.
  • Language BarrierLearn Spanish. Locals appreciate the effort, and kids pick it up fast.

 

Personal Stories: Voices from the Community

For Black people in Mérida, the stories aren’t just personal—they’re proof that a different life is possible.

Black men often talk about how different life feels here compared to the U.S. They describe a peace they’ve never known, a reality where the police wave at them instead of stopping them. There’s no fear of being profiled, harassed, or worse.

They don’t have to hold their breath during traffic stops or worry about being followed in stores. The fear of police shootings and so-called “Black-on-Black crime” is gone.

And then there’s the food. No more “itis”—that heavy, sluggish feeling after eating.

In Mexico, meals are seasoned with herbs and spices, not loaded with toxic butter, oils, and high sodium. Many Black men talk about feeling mentally sharper, more physically agile, and even noticing improvements in their sex lives.

“More blood to the brain, more blood to the penis,” one man joked.

But it’s more than just physical. Black men in Mexico are realizing they share the same traumas—and now, in a safe space, they’re able to recognize and heal from them.

Black women have their own stories to tell. Some have recovered from breast cancer, crediting their new environment for access to organic food and a toxin-free lifestyle.

They speak about mental clarity, peace, and stronger relationships. They’re learning from the locals about family-first values and accountability.

Black families are realizing Mexico is the best place for their children.

Kids with autism or ADHD are thriving in a healthier environment—some requiring fewer medications or none at all. Parents say they finally see their children being allowed to just be kids.

And it’s not just Black expats noticing the difference.

Mexican locals see it too.

One Mexican educator in her late 20s shared how many classroom issues come from American Expat children—temper tantrums, bullying, and behaviors that seem foreign to Mexican kids.

It’s a reminder that the toxicity of the U.S. seeps into our children early.

But in Mérida? We have the chance to break the cycle and build something better—for ourselves and for generations to come.

 

Economic and Practical Realities of Relocating to Mexico

Let’s keep it real—moving to Mexico ain’t just about packing a bag, hopping on a plane, and living your best life under the sun.

It’s deeper than that.

If you’re serious about making this move, you gotta come correct.

That means understanding the practicalities—because freedom don’t mean a thing if you ain’t got a plan.

 

1. The Cost of Living: More Bang for Your Buck

Let’s start with the good news—your money stretches further in Mexico.

Way further.

  • Rent in cities like Mérida or Oaxaca can be a fraction of what you’d pay in the U.S.
  • Fresh food? You’ll be eating like royalty without breaking the bank.

But don’t get it twisted—expat hotspots like Tulum and parts of Mexico City can get pricey, especially if you’re trying to live like a tourist.

Do your research.

Set a budget.

Live like a local—because that’s always cheaper than living like a visitor.

 

2. Visas: Don’t Get Caught Slippin’

You can’t just roll up to Mexico and stay forever without the right paperwork.

  • Tourist Visa – Most folks start with this. It allows a stay of up to six months.
  • Temporary or Permanent Residency – If you’re serious about putting down roots, you’ll need to apply for one of these.

But here’s the catch—residency visas require proof of income or savings.

That means:

Get your finances in order.

Apply for the right visa.

Don’t overstay your welcome—Mexico might be welcoming, but they still got rules.

And don’t sleep on this—overstaying your visa can lead to fines or even deportation.

 

Making the Move: Resources, Challenges, and Community Support

Moving to Mexico is more than just an idea—it’s a plan that requires preparation, knowledge, and the right resources.

If you’re serious about making this transition, you don’t have to do it alone.

 

Finding Support: Learn From Those Who’ve Done It

One of the smartest moves you can make is connecting with seasoned Black expats who’ve already been through the process.

Groups like The Black Mérida Experience have direct connections to attorneys who can help you navigate the residency process—sometimes even securing same-day service.

They’ve got the inside scoop so you don’t have to figure it all out on your own.

If you need a detailed, step-by-step guide to relocating to Mexico, check out Monte Raynor.

Monte is one of the most trusted voices in the Black expat community, offering both free and paid courses that break down everything—from visas to housing to cultural integration.

Want the real game? Check out his YouTube channel, Mexitplans.

 

The Return Ticket Loophole

Here’s something a lot of folks don’t realize:

Some airlines and immigration officers may ask for proof of a return ticket before letting you board your flight to Mexico.

This can be a problem if you’re moving permanently and don’t plan to return.

But don’t stress—there’s a website called Onward Ticket that provides verifiable flight reservations for visa applications.

For as little as $16, you can get a legit-looking return ticket emailed to you instantly.

No hassle. No stress. Just peace of mind.

 

Language Barriers: Speak Their Language

Let’s be real—not everyone in Mexico speaks English.

If you’re serious about making Mexico home, learning Spanish is non-negotiable.

  • It’s not just about ordering tacos (though that’s important too).
  • It’s about building relationships, navigating daily life, and showing respect for the culture.

When you step into Mérida or other parts of Mexico, you’ll notice how polite and welcoming the locals are.

They’ll greet you with a warm:

  • “Buenos días” (Good morning)
  • “Buenas tardes” (Good afternoon)
  • “Buenas noches” (Good evening/night)

Don’t be shy—greet them back.

A small effort goes a long way in showing respect and building connections.

And if you’re feeling extra friendly, throw in a:

  • “¿Cómo está?” (How are you?)
  • “Gracias” (Thank you)

They’ll appreciate the effort—even if your accent is a work in progress.

 

Healthcare: Affordable and Accessible

One of the biggest perks of living in Mexico? Healthcare.

It’s affordable, high-quality, and way less bureaucratic than in the U.S.

  • Many expats use a mix of public healthcare (through Mexico’s IMSS system) and private insurance.
  • A routine doctor’s visit might cost you $20 out of pocket.
  • Prescriptions? Pennies compared to U.S. prices.

But keep in mind—healthcare systems vary by region.

Do your homework and find out what works best for you.

And if you’re in Mérida, you’re in luck.

The Black Mérida community has Lisa Whitely, a healthcare professional who’s not only bilingual but also deeply connected to the local healthcare system.

Lisa provides personalized advice and can connect you with the right professionals if you need further care.

From finding a specialist to navigating insurance, Lisa’s got your back.

Her services ensure a smooth transition into Mexico’s healthcare system, so you can focus on staying healthy and thriving.

 

Gentrification: Don’t Be That Expat

This is where we gotta be mindful.

As more Black expats and other foreigners move to Mexico, we have to consider how our presence impacts local communities.

Rising rents, displaced families, and cultural erasure are real issues in cities like Mexico City and Tulum.

But let’s be clear—Black folks ain’t the ones driving this.

Historically, it’s been white expats and corporations who exploit communities for profit, bringing colonialism and greed to the table.

The real culprits are often businesses that raise prices because they see an opportunity to cash in.

Gentrification can be avoided when goodwill exists and greed doesn’t.

So as Black expats, we gotta do our part:

  • Respect the locals.
  • Support their businesses.
  • Integrate into the community without disrupting the ecosystem.

This ain’t just about finding peace for ourselves—it’s about creating a better future for everyone.

 

Cultural Integration: Build Bridges, Not Walls

Mexico has a rich, vibrant culture that’s been thriving long before we got here.

To truly make it home, we have to do more than just live here—we have to become part of the community.

That means:

  • Learning the history.
  • Celebrating the traditions.
  • Building relationships with your neighbors.

It’s not about being a guest—it’s about being family.

And let’s not forget—we bring something valuable to the table too.

Black expats can contribute to Mexico in ways that benefit everyone.

  • Fashion, music, dance, and cuisine.
  • Professional expertise in law, medicine, and education.
  • Business knowledge from Fortune 100 and 500 corporate experience.

Imagine introducing:

  • Professional basketball leagues or other sports that Mexico hasn’t fully tapped into yet.
  • Black-owned businesses that serve both locals and expats.

Our presence can enrich the culture and economy in ways that go beyond just living here.

 

A New Chapter Begins

For too long, we have been taught that the only path to freedom is through struggle—through fighting for a seat at a table that was never meant for us.

But what if true power doesn’t come from asking for a seat?

What if it comes from walking away—and building something of our own?

Our ancestors were not just survivors. They were visionaries. They understood when to fight and when to forge a new path.

They knew that freedom is not something to request—it is something to claim.

And they did just that.

Some fled north, believing in promises that were never fully realized.

Others fled south—and found something real.

A land that did not see them as property.

A place where freedom was not a favor—it was a right.

And today, we find ourselves at that same crossroads.

We are witnessing a modern-day exodus, one that echoes the past.

And as people begin to open their eyes and search for something better, they are finding their way to new possibilities.

Mérida. The Yucatán. Mexico City. Tulum. Playa del Carmen.

Call it a movement.

Call it a shift.

Call it what it is—a pursuit of dignity, of security, of peace.

Because people are realizing that leaving is not about running away from something—it is about moving toward something greater.

Toward a life where fresh, organic food is the norm, not a privilege.

Toward a life where safety is expected, not a luxury.

Toward a life where simply existing does not make you a target.

Because this is about more than escaping injustice—this is about embracing opportunity.

Opportunity for self-determination.

Opportunity for community.

Opportunity for a future where we are not just surviving—we are thriving.

This is not about fear.

It is about strategy.

And this time, we move forward with intention.

So if history is repeating itself, let’s ensure we write a different ending.

Let’s ensure that this time, as we step forward—

we never look back.

To connect with a community that’s already paving the way, visit The Black Mérida Experience. And for stories, resources, and inspiration about modern-day Black freedom in Mexico, check out BlackMexi.co.

Follow us on social media and join the conversation to stay connected and engaged:

Freedom isn’t given; it’s taken. And Mexico has had it waiting for you since 1921.

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